Mary Flowers Tarwater

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“I wish there was a video or at least an audio recording of Mary in speech class at Dothan High, practicing, reciting and delivering with incredible...Read More »
1 of 52 | Posted by: Verne Dawson - New York, NY

“As a native of Dothan, Alabama, I have many memories of the Flowers family and particularly Flowers Hospital. I did not know Mary, but I extend my...Read More »
2 of 52 | Posted by: June McKay Asbury - knoxville, TN

“Mary was such a beautiful, smart and funny friend. We wrapped Christmas presents one Christmas at Claudine's and she made it so much fun. She will...Read More »
3 of 52 | Posted by: Mimi Whatley Smith - dothan, AL

“Dear Dwight and family, We received the news about Mary just a day ago and are so very saddened by your untimely loss. Mary's life in Knoxville, of...Read More »
4 of 52 | Posted by: Doris Mays Moses - Charleston, WV

“I was so shocked and saddened by the news of Mary's passing. She was truly a beautiful lady- inside and out. My prayers and thoughts are with you all...Read More »
5 of 52 | Posted by: Cori Kopp - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight and family,Joan and I send our deepest condolences upon your tragic loss of Mary. Dwight, you and Mary were one of those couples who I thought...Read More »
6 of 52 | Posted by: Harold Pinkley - Nashville, TN

“dwight you an your family have been in my thoughts an prayers. trully sorry for the pain you all are going through. with sympathy, andy davis ”
7 of 52 | Posted by: andy dykes davis

“I'm so sorry about your loss Tarwatwer family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. If there is anything I can do...Read More »
8 of 52 | Posted by: Jessica Powers

“I was notified of Mary's passing by my sister who lives in Knoxville. Mary was my roommate in college, and I absolutely adored her. She was such a...Read More »
9 of 52 | Posted by: Linda Lee Cate - Foley, AL

“Dwight and family, So very sorry for your loss. May The Lord give you His comfort and His peace and keep His arms wrapped around you always. ...Read More »
10 of 52 | Posted by: Albert and Karen Holmes - TN

“I am so saddened to hear of Mary's death. Mary and I were great friends in elementary and junior high school until she moved to Dothan. We also were...Read More »
11 of 52 | Posted by: Evie Weil Sherrod - Lacanada, CA

“Dear Dwight, I am so, so sorry to hear of Mary's sudden passing. I was not fortunate enough to know her well, but many times I witnessed true,...Read More »
12 of 52 | Posted by: Michele Choe - Denver, CO

“Dwight, I was so saddened to hear the news about your wife. I, and many of your high school friends, have followed your family in the news over the...Read More »
13 of 52 | Posted by: Cindy Butcher Eisele - Knoxville, TN

“Dear Dwight and family, We were so sad to hear of Mary's sudden death. She was such a lovely person and Godly role model. She will be missed by...Read More »
14 of 52 | Posted by: Dick and Wendy Coffey - Knoxville, TN

“I am so very sorry for your loss.Many prayers are being sent your way... ”
15 of 52 | Posted by: Beth Price - Dothan, AL

“We are so very sorry for your loss. God's abiding peace to all. Danny, Allison and Sam Pressley ”
16 of 52 | Posted by: Allison Pressley - TN

“We are deeply sorry to hear the sad news. We are very blessed that we had the opportunity to spend time with Mary. In our brief relationship with...Read More »
17 of 52 | Posted by: Sam and Jackie-Sue Scelfo and family - LA

“I remember Mary from The Church of the Ascension when we were members there in the 1990's, and I always admired her poise, beauty and unwavering...Read More »
18 of 52 | Posted by: Suzan Murphy - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight I am very sorry for your loss, my friend. I will continue to pray for you and your family that you may find some comfort in your great faith...Read More »
19 of 52 | Posted by: Henry King - Newton, MA - Friend

“Our hearts and our love are with Mary and her family. ”
20 of 52 | Posted by: Dru and Paula Flowers - Atlanta, GA

“Sadly, I never got the opportunity to meet Mary, but I did know her mother fairly well as I was an employee at Flowers Hospital under Mrs. Flowers. ...Read More »
21 of 52 | Posted by: Brenda (Jones) Benton - Dothan, AL

“Dwight, So sorry for your loss. ”
22 of 52 | Posted by: Marla Brody - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight - Barb and I don't know where to begin. This is such an impersonal message - and we will send a private note. But our thoughts and prayers...Read More »
23 of 52 | Posted by: John and Barb Fitzpatrick - CO

“Dwight and Family, I am shocked and saddened to hear of Mary's passing. I have so many fun memories of our years together modeling. Mary was a dear...Read More »
24 of 52 | Posted by: LeAnne McCracken Colquitt - TN

“Dwight and Family, I am sorry beyond words for your loss.. Mary was such a special lady, and always carried herself with such grace and elegance......Read More »
25 of 52 | Posted by: Muffet Testerman Buckner - TN

“Davis, I was as shocked as everyone else to learn of your mother's untimely passing. I know that she had to be so proud of you, not only for your...Read More »
26 of 52 | Posted by: Bill Lauer - Knoxville, TN

“I wanted to express how kind and nurturing Mary and Katherine both were during my daughter's years at Webb. Kaylee came in the 7th grade and knew no...Read More »
27 of 52 | Posted by: K.K. Webster - Clinton, TN

“Dear Tarwater family, I still remember the first time I met Mary on a photo shoot. She was the ideal model, figure and all. Later, as I got to know...Read More »
28 of 52 | Posted by: kristy stuart - knoxville, TN

“Dwight and Family You are in our thoughts and prayers and have our deepest sympathy. Mary introduced me to Beth Moore and so many superlatives come...Read More »
29 of 52 | Posted by: Carol and Barry Walton - Billings, MT

“Dwight & family - my deepest condolences for your loss. I only met Mary once, in Nashville some 30 years ago, but I remember that she had a smile...Read More »
30 of 52 | Posted by: Mark K. Braswell - Washington, DC

“We are so saddened to hear of Mary's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Mary was a truly elegant woman, who...Read More »
31 of 52 | Posted by: Kirk and Rachel Peterson - Urbana, OH

“Dwight, Susan and I extend our deepest condolences, and pray that during this time, the words of Romans 8:35-39 will provide comfort to you and your...Read More »
32 of 52 | Posted by: Tom Dillard - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight I am very sorry for the sudden loss of your wife Mary. Many thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God's Peace comfort...Read More »
33 of 52 | Posted by: David - TN

“So very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. Our prayers and sympathies for the entire Tarwater and Flowers families. ”
34 of 52 | Posted by: Bernie & Brenda Matthews & family - PA

“Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. Psalm 116:15 We pray for comfort of heart in this time of loss. ”
35 of 52 | Posted by: Kenneth Eppers & Family - NV

“I am so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She was truly beautiful inside and out. My sincere condolences. ”
36 of 52 | Posted by: Thyra Walker - Knoxville, TN

“Deepest sympathies to the entire Tarwater family. ”
37 of 52 | Posted by: Philip Vavalides

“My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Barbara McClelland ”
38 of 52 | Posted by: barbara mcclelland - knoxville, TN

“My prayers and condolences on the passing of a very kind and graceful lady. She mentored a young mothers' group at Ascension that I was lucky to be...Read More »
39 of 52 | Posted by: Meredith Devereaux - Knoxville, TN

“Mary was a beautiful woman that was so kind to us during our time and ministry at Church of the Ascension. We both learned so much from her. We are...Read More »
40 of 52 | Posted by: Bill and Jennifer DiLemme - NC

“My recollection of the year is that we were in the tenth grade, just beginning to find our way at Dothan High School. We gathered for general...Read More »
41 of 52 | Posted by: Fred Hardwick - Dothan, AL

“Mary was one of the most precious souls we have known. Tar-baby, our hearts ache for your loss and for the children. Even though a bright light has...Read More »
42 of 52 | Posted by: Jeannie Bennett - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight, So many in the community are shocked and saddened by your loss. I am praying for provisions of strength and comfort for you and your family...Read More »
43 of 52 | Posted by: Loretta Harber - Knoxville, TN

“Dwight, We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that our prayers are for you and your children. Susan and Gaines Walker ”
44 of 52 | Posted by: Susan Walker - knox, TN

“Praying for you all at this difficult time. Thankful for the spiritual impact your wife/mom had on so many people. In His grip with you, Scott...Read More »
45 of 52 | Posted by: Scott Mottice - OH

“We are so sorry about the lose of a wonderful friend, mother and beautiful wife. She will be missed by all. Love, Sheila and Gary higgins ”
46 of 52 | Posted by: Gary and Sheila Higgins - TN

“It was my privilege to hear Mary teach at All Souls Church. I also heard her testimony of the time of trial her family experienced in Montgomery,...Read More »
47 of 52 | Posted by: Elaine Kirby - Knoxville, TN

“Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy ”
48 of 52 | Posted by: Marn Larsen-Ball - Chattanooga, TN

“What a wonderful lady and she always displayed such a warm smile. I am grateful to have known Mary. We enjoyed a great senior trip with our boys,...Read More »
49 of 52 | Posted by: DeAnna Beeler - Knoxville, TN

“Such a Beautiful Soul, As beautiful as she was in appearance, she was even more beautiful on the inside. She will be missed by many. Dwight,...Read More »
50 of 52 | Posted by: Tammy Garber - Knoxville, TN

“Thinking of your family. May her memory be eternal. ”
51 of 52 | Posted by: The Johnsons - Anderson, SC

“Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Tarwaters. With love and fond memories from our Scotswood Circle days. Rob, Linda, Abby and Reed Noyes ”
52 of 52 | Posted by: The Noyes Family - Knoxville, TN

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Tarwater, Mary Flowers, age 57, of Knoxville, joined her savior Jesus Christ on December 28, 2012. She was a loving, faithful, and elegant wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend. She was a devoted follower of Jesus Christ, having led numerous Bible studies, and ministries of prayer and healing. In recent years, she mentored hundreds of young people in their journeys to faith. Mary contributed countless hours and resources to numerous non-profit groups and ministries. She was a member of All Souls Church in Knoxville. Mary was born September 6, 1955, in Dothan, Alabama, to the late Alabama Attorney General Richmond M. Flowers, Sr. and Mary Flowers. She grew up in Dothan and Montgomery with her brothers, Richmond, Jr. and Jeff. She graduated from the University of Tennessee where she met Knoxville attorney, Dwight Tarwater, whom she married on December 22, 1978. Mary and Dwight have three children: Davis, a graduate of the University of Michigan and the University of Oxford and a 2012 Olympic Gold Medalist; Katherine, a graduate of the University of Georgia and a fourth grade teacher in Knox County; and Dwight, a basketball player at Cornell University. Mary worked in the fashion industry for several years before devoting her life to her family and her ministry pursuits. She was a professional model who made numerous appearances locally and nationally. She worked as an account executive for Revlon and as fashion coordinator and buyer for a local department store. Mary was preceded in death by her father, Richmond M. Flowers, Sr. and sister, Katherine Moran Flowers. She is survived by her husband, Dwight Tarwater; children, Davis, Katherine, and Dwight Tarwater; mother, Mary Flowers; brothers, Richmond Flowers, Jr. and Jeff Flowers; several nieces and nephews; and numerous friends and ministry partners. A memorial service will be held on Monday, December 31, at 4:00 pm at Cedar Springs Presbyterian Church with Rev. Doug Banister officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to All Souls Church, 4 Market Square, Knoxville, TN 37902, or to the charity of your choice. The family will receive friends on Monday from 2:00 – 3:50 pm at Cedar Springs Presbyterian Church. Arrangements by Rose Mortuary Mann Heritage Chapel. Online condolences may be made at

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