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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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It's never too late to apologize (Published 10-25-11)

Q:

Hi, My mother was everything to me. The week before she passed I was using a lot of crystal meth and I was verbally and physically abusive to her. The day before she died, I said I hated her. I am her next of kin, and I got the phone call that she'd died the next morning. The hospital gave her a bad overdose of medication.
Now I am alone, sad everyday, and feeling guilty. I put myself through purgatory and numerous melt downs.
Will my guilt ever go away?


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  • September 2014
    Billings, MT - Sept 5-8, 2014
    Portland, OR - Sept 12-15, 2014
    Cleveland, OH - Sept 19-22, 2014
    Moncton, NB, Canada - Sept 26-29, 2014
    Los Angeles, CA - Sept 26-29, 2014
    Wilmington, DE Sept 26-29, 2014
  • October 2014
    San Diego, CA - Oct 10-13, 2014
    Albuquerque, NM - Oct 17-20, 2014
    Louisville, KY - Oct 17-20, 2014
    Regina, SK, Canada - Oct 24-27, 2014

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